This might sound as a cliché but it is one of the most important questions you have to answer for yourself, in order to make a more immense progress on your present life. Quite simple, it might seem but there way too many stuffs attached to it than we can actually see.
I was chatting with a female friend on whatsapp. and she was like, "Kent, how did it come to this, i never knew you where creative", now this friend of mine has known me for years, and it got me thinking, like what have i been doing with all the stuffs that have been going through my head, it was all a case of belonging, being with the wrong people might not do you a lot of good, now when i say wrong i don't mean criminals or armed robbers, am talking of being with those people that motivate you to get better.
You might be a great writer or singer, a good football, comedian or perhaps you have some other stuff you are very good at, but being at the right places, you might end up not reaching the heights you always dreamed of.
Now finding out where you belong can be very easy, if you are really zealous, there are just a few things you need to do and you could just be unlocking the better parts of your potentials ..
DEFINE WHO YOU ARE?
Yea, this is the first stage, you need to discover first of all, "who you are", those things that you think makes you different. There is always that special something that makes you special, something you do great on without stress. If you have not realized your you could read this article by "Audrey" . You might also need to listen to what people say you are good at, it kinda helps,
The Pastor's wife once asked, "kent, are you in the media?" i was stirred. Bottom line listen....
WHAT MAKES MY HEART FEEL GOOD?
Sometimes this can be a little bit tricky because, not all that makes your heart happy, decides where you belong, so here is the thing, you have to merge who you are with what makes your heart happy, sounds easy right, well it might be as easy as it seems, now i love music, love dancing, but mehn thats not who i am, now for many years i kept on staying where i don't belong just because i felt good about it, and not because i was necessarily good at it. Now you should know that there is this extra energy you get when you do what you love to do, which is why you should make what you love to do to be who you are, thats more like maths right. i had this friend that could act for Hollywood but she kept on saying she doesnt like acting, anytime she acts you just know, that is who she is, now i told her until she loved acting she might find it difficult to achieve what she was supposed to.
LOOK FOR PEOPLE WITH SAME GOAL AS YOU.
Its matters also too much, who you hang around with, the people around you can motivate, inspire or they could kill the zeal in you, and even make you feel very bad about yourself, they might even make you try to imitate there own identity, so you should pick who your pals are wisely, Make your friends according to your identity after all, we have all heard the saying,"tell me your friend and i will tell you who you are", ask your self who you are?, or is your friend making you who he is? These are two very different situations.
Ok that is it, just in case you have other ideas, why not drop a comment, you could also contact me on my contact page, Hope this helps someone.
The Pastor's wife once asked, "kent, are you in the media?" i was stirred. Bottom line listen....
WHAT MAKES MY HEART FEEL GOOD?
Sometimes this can be a little bit tricky because, not all that makes your heart happy, decides where you belong, so here is the thing, you have to merge who you are with what makes your heart happy, sounds easy right, well it might be as easy as it seems, now i love music, love dancing, but mehn thats not who i am, now for many years i kept on staying where i don't belong just because i felt good about it, and not because i was necessarily good at it. Now you should know that there is this extra energy you get when you do what you love to do, which is why you should make what you love to do to be who you are, thats more like maths right. i had this friend that could act for Hollywood but she kept on saying she doesnt like acting, anytime she acts you just know, that is who she is, now i told her until she loved acting she might find it difficult to achieve what she was supposed to.
LOOK FOR PEOPLE WITH SAME GOAL AS YOU.
Its matters also too much, who you hang around with, the people around you can motivate, inspire or they could kill the zeal in you, and even make you feel very bad about yourself, they might even make you try to imitate there own identity, so you should pick who your pals are wisely, Make your friends according to your identity after all, we have all heard the saying,"tell me your friend and i will tell you who you are", ask your self who you are?, or is your friend making you who he is? These are two very different situations.
Ok that is it, just in case you have other ideas, why not drop a comment, you could also contact me on my contact page, Hope this helps someone.
